绝不输给命运

昨天我去看望老同学，回来后，心里酸酸的···初中毕业前，她因大病一场，身体尚在恢复中，没能与我们一起下乡，后来念了林校。可是1968年全国大批知青上山下乡，她也未能幸免，我们真是殊途同归。直到1975年抽工回城，比我可幸运多了，我是从1965年下乡直到1979年才带着两个孩子回城。她在农村待了7年，抽工到丹东纺织厂。这是一个新建厂，从挖地基建厂房到投入生产，她们付出了艰辛的努力，立下了汗马功劳，可是因为没有背景，没能到机关工作，只能到车间当了一名保养工。好在不用倒班，算是对她们的照顾。

她写得一笔好字，并且左右手都能写，连车间工会主席都觉得应该把位置让给她，可是现实就是这样，光有才干没有门路是不行的。每年年终她都被借到厂工会帮忙写奖状，把她那像字帖一样的毛笔字展示在每一张奖状上。

她天生一副好嗓子，浑厚圆润的女中音，决不输给关牧村，她边唱歌边弹吉他，曾经倾倒过好多青年点的男生。在全厂歌咏比赛或年终文艺汇演中，她一展歌喉，为车间争第一名做贡献。常言道，文体不分家，她还热爱篮球，投篮特别准，每年厂工会举办篮球比赛都是她最高兴的日子，她那矫健的身影驰骋在篮球场上，每投中一球都会博得全场热烈掌声，也有年轻人不服气，说她都是孩子妈妈了还嘚瑟什么！可是她从不理会，照样快乐的工作生活着，用她的热情感染着身边的每一个人。用她的热心帮助着需要帮助的人。她性格开朗，人缘特别好。

天有不测风云，1982年她丈夫因突发心脏病不治去世（也是我们同学，和她一个青年点的）撇下她和年幼的儿子! 灾难没有击垮她，她勇敢的面对生活，坚强地挺了过来!这其中的滋味，她最了解，尤其是她无法把儿子带到女浴池洗澡，只好求男工友帮忙。

几年后经人介绍与比她大6岁的也是下乡在东港的知青结婚了，他也有过一段婚姻，还有两个女儿。他很有才华，是某商店经理。当我去参加婚礼时劝说过他们不要小孩，可是，婚后她们感情甚笃，非要一个爱情的结晶，可怜我的老同学在三十多岁高龄时怀孕生产，从妊娠开始就患上了高血压，分娩时大出血，血压降到了零，命悬一线，好不容易才抢救过来！好在聪明漂亮的女儿是她们最大的欣慰！每当我看见她抱着女儿挤车上下班，心里都有说不出的滋味。可她却觉得无比的幸福！看着孩子一天天长大，上了小学，上中学，一直到大学毕业，时间就好像一夜之间过去了，转眼女儿也到了该出嫁的年龄了！

那天我去她们家看见她丈夫已因脑梗半身瘫痪。她每天从早忙到晚，洗漱，喂饭，帮他做康复锻炼，教他捡花生豆，榛子，恢复右手功能···像个陀螺转个不停，连到市场买菜都得小跑着来回，生怕他自己在家有什么不测！我真的很心疼她，可她却笑着说，她比前几年轻松多了，要知道她退休后一直在打工，供孩子上大学，从早上5点钟到晚上9点钟才下班，骑着自行车，往返十几里，不管刮风下雨，冰天雪地，都是这么坚持下来！直到去年8月份她也患了脑梗，才不去上班。我真是佩服她的毅力，她不屈不挠的性格，吃苦耐劳的品质和能力。我知道，她永远都不会输给命运的！命运总是爱跟我们开玩笑，总是制造种种麻烦考验我们每个人的意志，只有不向它低头，才能战胜它！

在我们看来很难做到的事情，她都轻而易举的胜任，我问她为什么，她的回答很简单，这个家需要我，每当看到丈夫满意的眼神，都是对她莫大的鼓励。她们俩感情太好了!真正是相濡以沫，水乳交融，所以付出再大的辛苦她也不会抱怨。她对我说:只要他好好的，自己做什么都心甘情愿。是的，没有海誓山盟，没有豪言壮语，有的只是日常生活中的关怀体贴，无微不至的照顾和付出，这就是我们这一辈人的共同特点，用实际行动诠释着贤妻良母这个词。用无声的行动教育着儿女，代代相传。 

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