绝不输给命运

昨天我去看望老同学,回来后,心里酸酸的···初中毕业前,她因大病一场,身体尚在恢复中,没能与我们一起下乡,后来念了林校。可是1968年全国大批知青上山下乡,她也未能幸免,我们真是殊途同归。直到1975年抽工回城,比我可幸运多了,我是从1965年下乡直到1979年才带着两个孩子回城。她在农村待了7年,抽工到丹东纺织厂。这是一个新建厂,从挖地基建厂房到投入生产,她们付出了艰辛的努力,立下了汗马功劳,可是因为没有背景,没能到机关工作,只能到车间当了一名保养工。好在不用倒班,算是对她们的照顾。

她写得一笔好字,并且左右手都能写,连车间工会主席都觉得应该把位置让给她,可是现实就是这样,光有才干没有门路是不行的。每年年终她都被借到厂工会帮忙写奖状,把她那像字帖一样的毛笔字展示在每一张奖状上。

她天生一副好嗓子,浑厚圆润的女中音,决不输给关牧村,她边唱歌边弹吉他,曾经倾倒过好多青年点的男生。在全厂歌咏比赛或年终文艺汇演中,她一展歌喉,为车间争第一名做贡献。常言道,文体不分家,她还热爱篮球,投篮特别准,每年厂工会举办篮球比赛都是她最高兴的日子,她那矫健的身影驰骋在篮球场上,每投中一球都会博得全场热烈掌声,也有年轻人不服气,说她都是孩子妈妈了还嘚瑟什么!可是她从不理会,照样快乐的工作生活着,用她的热情感染着身边的每一个人。用她的热心帮助着需要帮助的人。她性格开朗,人缘特别好。

天有不测风云,1982年她丈夫因突发心脏病不治去世(也是我们同学,和她一个青年点的)撇下她和年幼的儿子! 灾难没有击垮她,她勇敢的面对生活,坚强地挺了过来!这其中的滋味,她最了解,尤其是她无法把儿子带到女浴池洗澡,只好求男工友帮忙。

几年后经人介绍与比她大6岁的也是下乡在东港的知青结婚了,他也有过一段婚姻,还有两个女儿。他很有才华,是某商店经理。当我去参加婚礼时劝说过他们不要小孩,可是,婚后她们感情甚笃,非要一个爱情的结晶,可怜我的老同学在三十多岁高龄时怀孕生产,从妊娠开始就患上了高血压,分娩时大出血,血压降到了零,命悬一线,好不容易才抢救过来!好在聪明漂亮的女儿是她们最大的欣慰!每当我看见她抱着女儿挤车上下班,心里都有说不出的滋味。可她却觉得无比的幸福!看着孩子一天天长大,上了小学,上中学,一直到大学毕业,时间就好像一夜之间过去了,转眼女儿也到了该出嫁的年龄了!

那天我去她们家看见她丈夫已因脑梗半身瘫痪。她每天从早忙到晚,洗漱,喂饭,帮他做康复锻炼,教他捡花生豆,榛子,恢复右手功能···像个陀螺转个不停,连到市场买菜都得小跑着来回,生怕他自己在家有什么不测!我真的很心疼她,可她却笑着说,她比前几年轻松多了,要知道她退休后一直在打工,供孩子上大学,从早上5点钟到晚上9点钟才下班,骑着自行车,往返十几里,不管刮风下雨,冰天雪地,都是这么坚持下来!直到去年8月份她也患了脑梗,才不去上班。我真是佩服她的毅力,她不屈不挠的性格,吃苦耐劳的品质和能力。我知道,她永远都不会输给命运的!命运总是爱跟我们开玩笑,总是制造种种麻烦考验我们每个人的意志,只有不向它低头,才能战胜它!

在我们看来很难做到的事情,她都轻而易举的胜任,我问她为什么,她的回答很简单,这个家需要我,每当看到丈夫满意的眼神,都是对她莫大的鼓励。她们俩感情太好了!真正是相濡以沫,水乳交融,所以付出再大的辛苦她也不会抱怨。她对我说:只要他好好的,自己做什么都心甘情愿。是的,没有海誓山盟,没有豪言壮语,有的只是日常生活中的关怀体贴,无微不至的照顾和付出,这就是我们这一辈人的共同特点,用实际行动诠释着贤妻良母这个词。用无声的行动教育着儿女,代代相传。 





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