Tonight, I'm learning an article of 'Politness language', of course, it means Japanese. It's struture is so different to any other languages. But I also learned that when learning other languages, it's better not to be casual or formal manner, either of that is not commonly be accepted by the native speakers, just be neutral is well, this princepal is very important when you want to having comfortable conversations with native speakers before you have really been flunt in that language.
So, it's obvious to know, that if you want to now more and learn to be more closer to native speakers, you should get more and more realistic materials to learn from, just learning by theories or grammatical things will not or very difficult to reach that, even you're hard working.
Your interests are your best teacher, it's so simple and very often knows, but it's very diffcult to understant deeply and really know what's it mean.