How to Lead a Delightful Life in University

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How to Lead a Delightful Life in University

I’d like to say thanks to course, the art of public speaking, not only for it gives me a framework of the body of knowledge about delivering a good speech, but also for the weeks of fear and tough work for preparing the final speech, which made me lose weight. But what’s more important for me is that the process of preparing this final speech--- how to lead a delightful life in university let me think about the former year I have spent in SHU carefully, and find what’s useful for me and what’s helpful to you, my dear friends,

Here, I am not even trying to teach you or command you as an instructor how to live in university , I am just trying to give you an example of me and wish it will help you to find your own position in future in Shanghai University.

 

Savor the beauty around your life.

The first thing I’d like to say is to savor the beauty around you. The beauty around your life, which makes me think of a simple morning of my college life.

I chanced to rise early one particular morning this autumn, and took a walk into the campus while green was new and the flowers still in their bloom. As at this season of the year, every lane is a beautiful walk, with a little yellow fallen leaves sprinkling on the lane. I lost myself with a great deal of pleasure, among the bushes that filled with a great variety of birds and the freshness of dews that lay upon everything about me which formed a pleasantest scene in the world to one who has passed a whole tired night of study.

A really beautiful natural scene, isn’t it?  We’d better grasp every beautiful moment in our life. But what is beauty? Beauty is everything that let you have fun and feel the real happiness of life. Somehow, beauty is beauty only when you can sense it, otherwise, it is nothing. So we’d better chase it, right? As university is an essential(独一无二) and precious period of our whole life, where we can form our future lifestyle, the taste toward things and attitudes tendency, let’s look for it and once we can sense it whenever and wherever, then savor it. I believe it will lead your life to a more qualified one and more spiritual and noble one.

Touch other people’s life

Now let’s come to the second part of my speech today---touch other people’s life. We all come to university along with a purpose to have communication with different people. I have heard so many of you have mentioned an well-known expression---Relationship Network(人脉). But I don’t like this expression, because it seems most of you tend to wish to build up this relationship network just for bringing success for your own. But trust me, my dear friends, we are wrong. And I have spent a long time to realize my fault on it. Because friend is who will bring us warm when we feel cold. Friend is who will give you support even when you failed. Friend is the person who has seen through all of your weakness but still would like to give you a warm hug to encourage you. Friendship is not a tool at all. Here I’d like say to touch other people’s life which means to learn about others out of our sincerity, without any consideration of using them but helping them out of our kindness. On the contrary, what we should think should lays on what we can do for your friends, not what they can do for you.

I believe if you can do this and realize the true meaning of what I said today by yourself. You will be happier than before.

 

 

 

Failure(学会判断合适hold fast and 何时 let it go)

I am nearly finished. This is my last point of view I think that is important for you---attitude toward failure.

 You all come to university with dreams, and wish your dreams to bloom in future in this university. Dream is a really kind of beauty in the world. But what if it meets with realities? What if you have spent you whole contribution to it but the result is far worse than expected? You may feel anxious, fearful and even hopeless. I call all this the sense of failure.

 Dear, friends, believe me. You need to learn to be independent and learn how to deal with this feeling in a proper way by yourself during the period of university. It’s an existing capability as no one could help you forever. Other than to tell you to stick to your dream and never give up, this time I’d like to tell you should learn to let it go . Let those (xiaoji ) feelings  get out of your life.

  To tell you the truth, when I first came to university, I always feel frustrated by failure, because I who am a wanmeizhuyizhe and I cannot endure any failure. But gradually, I find I always feeled ashamed about myself and was fed up with the life so that let the life in school out of control. So I changed, I choose to smile every day even when I was criticized by someone. I try to tell jokes to friends even they said I have no talent at this field at all and they even can do with me.(nawomeibanfa). Suddenly, I find life is changed. The light is on. From them on, I strongly believe I am on the right way which will lead me to a happy life in the end. And to lead a happy life is my life goal, and today maybe I find a little path to it.

   Best wishes to you all, my dear friend. Please stop feel ashamed of yourself and add sunshine to your life as you are a good painter. J.K. Rowling, author of Harry Porter says, “It is impossible to live without failing at something”. When failure happens, learn to look at in a positive way and never enlarge your sadness too much and punish yourself.  

 

The three topics I have mentioned above all come from my inspirations from life. And wish any one word or even one sentence I said today could touch you and encourage you to lead a delightful life in university in your rest four years. Thank you!

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