Friendships
Remember
- Friendships can be complicated.
- When you want to get to know someone, it helps to talk about things that you have in common.
- Your friends should not pressure you to do things that make you feel uncomfortable or bad about yourself.
Friendships are fun and make us feel special but it is also normal for friendships to be complicated and confusing sometimes. Choosing the right kinds of friends is important. Read on to get the answers to the most commonly asked questions about teen friendships.
Why do all of my friendships seem to be changing?
Your friendships are changing because you and all of your friends are changing. The teenage years are a time of physical, emotional, and social growth and change. These changes don't happen at the same time, or at the same speed, from one person to the next.
Is there anything I can do to keep from losing my friends?
You might not have to end old friendships, but the relationships may need to change. You may find that you don't have as much in common as you used to. It's important to pay attention to your feelings, and to know what you enjoy doing. If your friends seem to be spending more time in activities that you don't enjoy, you may be happier finding some new friends who share your interests.
How do I begin a friendship with someone I like?
Some people are naturally outgoing and have no trouble making friends. Other are more shy and find it harder to get to know people. When you want to get to know someone, it helps to think of some things ahead of time that you could talk about. You may want to compliment them on something you notice about them or ask them something about school or an activity they are involved in. It may also help if you have an interest or activity in common.
What can I do to try to hold onto a friendship?
There are a few things you can do to try to keep a friend even though you and your friend seem to be growing apart. You can try to talk to your friend about your feelings, letting your friend know that he or she is still important to you even though your interests are changing. You might try out something that your friend has become interested in, such as a sport or invite your old friend to share a new interest of yours. If there are one or two activities that you both still like to do, maybe you can plan to get together once in a while to enjoy them, even though you may spend more and more time apart.
What if my parents don't like my friends?
Sometimes parents think that a friend may be a bad influence on you. It is worth listening to their concerns. You may be able to reassure them about your friend or they may have observations about your friend that you have not noticed.
What if I like my friends but I don't like what they are doing?
Sometimes friends, even people you have been friends with for a long time, may begin to do things that you are uncomfortable with, like using drugs, drinking, or stealing. They may or may not pressure you to join them. It may be hard, but you will need to judge for yourself about how much time to spend with these friends. It can be difficult and uncomfortable to make new friends, but it imay be necessary and worth the effort in the long run.
How do I know when it's time to give up on a friendship?
It's not easy to lose someone who has been an important part of your life. But if you're feeling really uncomfortable with your friend, or if you feel like your friend is putting pressure on you to do things that you don't want to do, or doesn't treat you with respect, or makes you feel bad about yourself, then it's probably time to move on. Trust your feelings.
I don't feel the same about my old friends, but I don't want to end up alone and bored. What can I do?
As you find yourself growing away from old friends, you'll want to make some new friends who share your interests. Some great ways to make new friends are by checking out clubs at school and after school activities, getting involved in sports, music, dance, or fitness classes, or becoming a volunteer. If you take part in activities that interest you, you are sure to meet people who you'll have things in common with.
Changes in friendship can be hard, especially while you're dealing with all the other changes during your teenage years. The good news is that it will get easier. The most important thing is to focus on being yourself, even as you seem to change from one day to the next. You might find it helpful to talk to an adult such as a parent, relative, teacher, or counselor, because, after all, every adult was a teenager at some point in his or her life, so they may remember what you're going through and be able to help you get through the tough times.
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英语作文friendship(关于friendship的英语作文)
you knwo that money is the necessary substance we have to rely on.
if we have none of it , we can't live and do something we do like to do.
however,we can't exaggerate the function of it.
friendship is also the importent factors surround us.friendship could provide ample nutrition of spirit,friendship give us enough energy to face hard life.
so none of each of money and friendship could deny , they are stick together.and can't divide.
英语作文friendship(关于friendship的英语作文)
What is friendship? It is to relate with somebody without need for money or objective. It is to need emotion and over wealth is friendship , no matter what their background , age , sex or personality.
Friendship can be pure. We hear , nowdays, however, how one can be cheated by friends. Many people get along with someone because they have a lot of money. It is doultful that is real friendship.
Having friends, one can be find happiness. If you are in trouble your friends will help you through or at least comfort you. When you are happy , they share it with you. They are also there for you to chat with at any time.
It is a wonderful feeling, as the proverb says" to love each other is easy but to make frieds is hard", So, it is crutial that we should get along with our friends. In my opinon ,it is a shame to deceive your friends . The world would be more beautiful if it was full of filled with friendship
英语作文friendship(关于friendship的英语作文)
In the nervous society,many people are puzzled by friendship and love,they can't distinguish friendship and love. So most of them are always to be hurt.In fact,friendship and love have many diffrences. Friendship is a quiet walk in the park with the one you trust.Love is when you feel like you are the two around.Friendship is when they gave into your eyes and you know they care.Love is when they gave into your eyes and it warms your heart.Friendship occupies your mind.Love occupies your soul.Friendship can survive without love,but love can't live without friendship. So my dear friends.In order to get real friendship and love,wo should seperate them. 英语作文friendship and money(关于friendship的英语作文)
if you lend your money to your friends, they will not be your friends any more. so to keep the friendship, you should not lend them money. besides, if two frined talk about lending and borrowing money, their friendship may be ruined.
you knwo that money is the necessary substance we have to rely on.
if we have none of it , we can't live and do something we do like to do.
however,we can't exaggerate the function of it.
friendship is also the importent factors surround us.friendship could provide ample nutrition of spirit,friendship give us enough energy to face hard life.
so none of each of money and friendship could deny , they are stick together.and can't divide.
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Friendship is a tree 热1sandfoam 2009-02-24 18:15 | |
Friendship is a tree(i like this poem,so i want to share it with all of you!) |
雅思(ielts)口语话题:关于友谊friendship |
来源:考试大 2008年07月29日 14:19 |
Qualities of Friends: |
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