<select id="ddlMember">

<option value="1">张三</option>

<option selected="selected" value="2">李四</option>

</select> 

//获取选中项

var ddlSelected = $('#ddlMember option:selected');
//选中项的文本
var ddlSelectedText=ddlSelected.text();
//选中项的值
var ddlSelectedVal=ddlSelected.val();