“There are no right answers to wrong questions.”–Ursula K. Le Guin
错误的问题是得不到正确的结果的
你的结果: 学会如何问关键的问题来帮助你立即改善你的结果
在30天敏捷结果：开篇中说到接下来我们将进行敏捷结果练习，前一篇学习了19：你在为谁做事？，今天我们要进行Getting Result练习的第20天：好的问题可以获得好的结果（Day 20 — Ask Better Questions, Get Better Results）
问问题是一个需要自己不断发生的事情，你问的越好对你来说可以获得更多。通过改善你问自己的问题，你可以改善你生活中不同热点区域的生活质量。
为什么要问问题
问对问题可以帮助我们平衡、聚焦，做出更好的决策，更有效地进行优先级排定：
- 问对问题=好的回答
不管这个问题是你进行自我对话还是会议讨论，问对问题都是非常重要的。如果把问问题和回答问题作为一个流程来看，那么你想获得好的回答则一定需要提出好的问题。就像我们经常逛技术论坛一样，你发帖求助的回答率与你提出的问题以及提问方式有关。 - 问题=关注点
通过改变你的问题可以改变我们的关注点，这可以让我们快速的切换视角。例如，加入你要做一个项目，你可能会问“我有什么资源来做这个项目”，如果你感觉资源不够时你就会消极；但是如果你换一种问题“如果没有资源、时间限制我会如何做这个项目？”那么你会想办法去解决资源问题。 - 问题=内心交流
通过问题进行自我沟通，可以让自己获得内心的更多力量。例如，我们在做一件事情之前，问问自己“为什么”要做，找出激励自己的情感式动力，这会让自己实现结果更有效，这也是“为什么”三个字带来的力量。 - 问题=机会
我们在做产品架构时会有一个市场需求文档模板，这里首先就是列出市场问题，后面就会跟着市场机会，通过问题提出解决方案可能就会创造出很多机会。
关于问题的谚语
- “A child can ask questions that a wise man cannot answer.”—Unknown
- “A prudent question is one-half of wisdom.” – Francis Bacon
- “An answer is always a form of death.”—John Fowles
- “It is not every question that deserves an answer.” — Publilius Syrus
- “No question is so difficult to answer as that to which the answer is obvious.” — Karl Otto von Schonhausen Bismarck
- “Quality questions create a quality life. Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers.” — Anthony Robbins
- “Questions are never indiscreet. Answers sometimes are.” – Publilius Syrus
- “The man who questions opinion is wise; the man who quarrels with fact is a fool.”–Frank A Garbutt
- “The only questions that really matter are the ones you ask yourself.” –Ursula K. LeGuin
- “The uncreative mind can spot wrong answers, but it takes a very creative mind to spot wrong questions.” —Antony Jay
- “We learn more by looking for the answer to a question and not finding it than we do from learning the answer itself.”—Lloyd Alexander
- “When we have arrived at the question, the answer is already near.”–Ralph Waldo Emerson
- “You can tell whether a man is clever by his answers. You can tell whether a man is wise by his questions”.—Naguib Mahfouz
改善结果的一些问题
我曾经也说过，一个人自我成长最简单的就是问自己一些问题，在个人管理：从昨天的一个设计评审来谈如何与人交流你的设计思路、个人管理：写书之前应该回答的几个问题、30天敏捷结果（19）：你在为谁做事？、30天敏捷生活（6）： 你的生活目标是什么？中都提出了很多问题。下面罗列一些问题的分类和示例，我相信对你应该会有所帮助：
| 分类 | 问题 |
|---|---|
| 通用问题 |
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| 行动 |
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| 效率和效能 |
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| 目的和目标 |
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| 学习 |
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| 激励 |
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| 时间管理 |
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| 价值 |
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用上面的表格作为找出好问题的开始，但是找出好问题的要点是这些问题必须对你起作用，你需要持续的给你的问题库中补充对你有用的问题（如果你不知道对生活的问题，可以参考本篇后面附上的生活自问列表）。你会发现，有些简单的问题可以让你远离沮丧去找出方案，具有创造力，并且能够找出下一步要做的事情。
本次练习要做的
- 找出一个可以帮助你获得更好结果的一个自问的问题
- 找出一个对你不起作用的问题，换一个更有效的问题来改善自己的结果
最后我附上一个101 Important Questions To Ask Yourself in Life
- Who are you?
- What are you passionate about?
- What are the achievements you are most proud of?
- What are you most grateful for in life?
- What are the most important things to you in life?
- How would you describe yourself?
- What are your values? What do you represent? What do you want to embody?
- Do you love yourself?
- Why? Why not?
- How can you love yourself more today?
- What is your ideal self? What does it mean to be the best you?
- Look at your life now. Are you living the life of your dreams?
- If you have one year left to live, what would you do?
- If you have one month left to live, what would you do?
- If you have one week left to live, what would you do?
- If you have one day left to live, what would you do?
- If you have an hour left to live, what would you do?
- If you have one minute left to live, what would you do?
- What would you do today if there is no more tomorrow?
- What are the biggest things you’ve learned in life to date?
- What advice would you give to yourself 3 years ago?
- If you are yourself 1 year from the future, how would you advise the you now?
- Is there something you’re still holding on to? Is it time to let it go?
- What are you busy with today? Will this matter 1 year from now? 3 years? 5 years?
- What are your Quadrant 2 tasks?
- What opportunities am I looking for?
- How can I create these opportunities?
- What are your biggest goals and dreams?
- If you are to do something for free for the rest of your life, what would you want to do?
- What would you do if you cannot fail; if there are no limitations in money, resources, time or networks?
- What do you want to achieve in 1 year from now? 3 years? 5 years? 10 years?
- How important are these goals to you?
- What if these goals are doubled? Tripled? Magnified by 10? How would you feel? Would you prefer to achieve these or your previous goals?
- Who are the people who have achieved similar goals? What can you learn from them?
- Are you putting any parts of your life on hold? Why?
- What’s the top priority in your life right now?
- What are you doing about it?
- If you were to die tomorrow, what would be your biggest regret?
- For each experience you are in: What are the biggest things you have learned?
- How can you do this better the next time?
- If you have 1 million dollars, what would you do with it?
- Do you love your job?
- What is your ideal career?
- How can you start creating your ideal career starting today?
- What is your ideal home like?
- What is your ideal physical look?
- What is your ideal life?
- What do you fear most in life?
- Is there anything you are running away from?
- Are you settling for less than you are worth? Why?
- What is your inner dialogue like?
- What limiting beliefs are you holding on to?
- Are they helping you achieve your goals?
- If not, is it time to let them go?
- What empowering beliefs can you take on to help you achieve your goals?
- What bad habits do you want to break?
- What good habits do you want to cultivate?
- What’s the biggest step you can take now that will create the biggest result?
- What would you want to say to yourself 1 year in the future? 3 years? 5 years? 10 years?
- Where are you living right now – the past, future or present?
- Are you living your life to the fullest right now?
- What is the meaning of life?
- What is your purpose in life? Why do you exist? What is your mission?
- What drives you?
- What are the times you are most inspired, most motivated, most charged up?
- What were you doing at the times?
- How can you do more of that starting today?
- How can you change someone’s life for the better today?
- Who are the 5 people you spend the most time with?
- Are these people enabling you or holding you back?
- What qualities do you want to embody?
- Where can you meet people who embody these qualities?
- Who inspire you the most?
- How can you be like them?
- What is your ideal life partner? How is he/she like?
- Where can you find him/her?
- How can you get to know him/her?
- Are you afraid of letting others get close to you? Why?
- Who are the most important people in the world to you?
- Are you giving them the attention you want to give?
- How can you spend more time with them starting today?
- What kind of person do you enjoy spending time around?
- How can you be this person to others?
- Who do you want to be like in 1 year? 3 years? 5 years? 10 years?
- Who are your mentors in life? (formal or informal)
- What is one thing you’re going to do differently after reading this article?
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