去除广告并且进入视频是默认暂停：

<embed src="http://static.youku.com/v/swf/qplayer.swf?VideoIDS=你的视频ID=&isAutoPlay=false&isShowRelatedVideo=false&embedid=-&showAd=0 " allowFullScreen="true" quality="high" width="100%" height="650" align="middle" allowScriptAccess="always" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"></embed>