Regard To Sexual Assault: Don't Be Silent Anymore

In China, Most of people have considered sex to be obscure, embarrassed thing and they are used to not to mention, especially when they together with their children. It’s because of the convention that blindly refusing to popularize certain and explicit sexual knowledges that the newspapers reveal the sexsual tragedy from time to time. Not only the victims and their families have been hurt a lot forever, but also we are all extremly pained. However, it’s lamentable that most of us have not realize the essential problem.

“Suyan” is a drama film distribute by Lotte Entertainment in South Korea. It is directed by li junyi and starred by xue jingqiu, li zhen, yan zhiyuan and jin haishu. The film was released in South Korea on October 2, 2013. Bases on a true Korean case, the film tells the story of how an underage girl steps out of the shadow of her heart after being sexually assaulted and how her family face life.

Nevertheless, harsh reality shattered all illusions. In the rest of sex offenders’ lives, majority of them in the face of varies of psychological problems cover afraiding of the opposite sex, cannot identify themselves, suffering more and less depressive disorder, easy to collapse in a situation similar to the crime scene, cannot develop the mind futher, and so forth. It’s chilling that maybe the psychological symptoms can be remitted but body injuries criminal imposed on them will be likely to never be irreparable. If it doesn’t happen to you, you can never imagine the magnitude of the damage.

We should not continute to ignore them. Delving into the nature of sex crimes, we have to start to think why the criminals select such a mean to meat their sexual desire and why there are more and more “Suyan”. When a sexual assault occurs, the whole society, in fact, have been the accessory indirectly. We had told about sex in a casual attitude with adults. But adults’ answers that we’ll naturally acquire when we grow up cannot satisfy us, so we begined to look for the sexual world by our own means. If we were told that rape is no big deal, thus we took the first step toward sexual crime. In the other hand, it’s harmful that we just have a little knowledge of sexual assault, as we don’t be conscious of sexual abuse is happening to us.

China’s society should attach importance to the sex education. As adults, we ought to talk about correct knowledge of sex with children. We should form a firm sense of morality that there should be no sex without love. What really matters is that we don’t be silent anymore.