原生JDBC连接MySQL数据库踩的坑

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先说一下我本地开发环境：Windows + MySQL（5.7.31）
原理：运用原生JDBC

        /**
         * 查询数据
         * @return
         */
        public List<AttThirdIMessagetem> getSelectData( String ip, String port, String user,String password,-String databaseName,){
   
            String connectionUrl = "";
            if(checkParam(ip,port,user,password,databaseName)){
   
                connectionUrl = "jdbc:mysql://"+ip+":"+port+"/"+databaseName+"";
                Connection con = null;
                Statement stmt = null;
                ResultSet rs = null;

                try {
   
                    Class.forName("com.mysql.jdbc.Driver");
                    con = DriverManager.getConnection(connectionUrl,user,password);
                    // 获取最新
                    String attLeaveSql = " ";//sql语句
                    stmt = con.createStatement();
                    rs =  stmt.executeQuery(attLeaveSql);
                    while (rs.next()) {
   //处理获取数据
                        
                        continue;
                    }
                } catch (Exception e) {
   
                    logger.error("获取接口连接失败",e);
                } finally {
   
                    if (rs != null) try {
   
                        rs.close();