添加一个 @mouseup 阻止冒泡就行了
<!-- 指令 -->
<div class="instructions" v-show="instructionShow">
<el-collapse>
<div v-for="(item, index) in instructionArr" :key="index">
<el-collapse-item :title="item.name" :name="item.name" >
<div v-for="(item2, index2) in item.list" :key="index2" @mouseup= "show_collapse(item2)" >
<span>{{ item2.msgName }}</span>
</div>
</el-collapse-item>
</div>
</el-collapse>
</div>