Vista 12-18:Why even we have gone ashore, still unhappy?

        The young want to go ashore and just put too much pressure on their mind, even they don't know what's that like ashore. It seems they are push to entangle on KaoYan,KaoGao and KaoBian. Does go ashore the only ways for us the young? If so, the life can be so dull.

        One phenomenon is showed around that if one thing is not benefitial to the grades that will be neglected by the young. So, will life become a simple game for grades? That's weird.

        And if there are two ways for us, while they whether represent the reality or the dream, one is to go infinity but fall into self-doubt because of the surrounding stupid people, other is to be the surrounding people and chase to go ashore. Most of us choose the latter, ot for me anymore. Go away the stupid surrounding guys.

        Another thing is the self-exploration. It should starts just as we go to the middle school, but on account of the education here, we have to put it off until the university. However, if we just put our whole mind into going ashore, the self-exploration will be put off again.So when can we do the self-exploration and find the future of ourselves. Go away the going ashore.

        We have to define the going ashore here. In fact, it's just a phased goal and it couldn't decide the rest of your life. I guess someone just make up a beautiful fantasy for us that after going ashore we can just sleep down and enjoy a relaxed life. But the truth is we can't.All in is not a good state，it will take too much from you and give no so good award as the result.

        Be all in just for the sleeping down in the rest of life. It's a contradiction that not so many people have told us.

        Why we may not be happy as we thought before after going ashore? Everything has two sides. Someone go into the national system and hve to bear the boring and complicated rules and work. Someone go to the big IT company have to work very very hard. 

        So, what can we do? First, making the choices from your mind not from the stupid surrounding. Second, why not build the land by yourself intead of going ashore? Third, never evaluate youself or the others by whether go ashore or not.

        Hope we will find our own future.