初学JAVA SWING关闭窗口时出现空指针

先贴代码：

package chat;

import java.awt.BorderLayout;
import java.awt.event.ActionEvent;
import java.awt.event.ActionListener;
import java.awt.event.WindowAdapter;
import java.awt.event.WindowEvent;
import java.io.DataInputStream;
import java.io.DataOutputStream;
import java.io.IOException;
import java.io.InputStream;
import java.io.OutputStream;
import java.net.ServerSocket;
import java.net.Socket;

import javax.swing.JButton;
import javax.swing.JFrame;
import javax.swing.JPanel;
import javax.swing.JScrollPane;
import javax.swing.JTextArea;
import java.io.IOException;
import java.net.ServerSocket;

public class MyUI {
	static final String NET_DISCON_FLAG="%%##DISCONNECT##%%";
	JTextArea disparea;

	JTextArea sendarea;
	ServerSocket ss;
	Socket s;
	Thread rec;
	boolean net_flag=false; // the other side is online
	InputStream in;
	DataInputStream din;
	OutputStream out;
	DataOutputStream dout;
	int port;
	MyUI(int port) {
		this.port = port;
		JFrame frm = new JFrame();
		JPanel pl1 = new JPanel();
		JPanel pl2 = new JPanel();
		JPanel pb = new JPanel();
		disparea  = new JTextArea();
		disparea.setEditable(false);
		sendarea = new JTextArea();
		JScrollPane scrop = new JScrollPane(disparea);
		JScrollPane editp = new JScrollPane(sendarea);
		
		JButton btnsnd = new JButton("Send");
		btnsnd.addActionListener(new clsbtnsend());
		//pl1.setLayout(new GridLayout(2,1));
		pl1.setLayout(new BorderLayout());
		pl1.add(scrop,BorderLayout.CENTER);
		
		pl2.setLayout(new BorderLayout());
		pl2.add(editp,BorderLayout.CENTER);
		pl2.add(btnsnd,BorderLayout.EAST);
		
		frm.setLayout(new BorderLayout());
		frm.addWindowListener(new clswindowclose());
		frm.add(pl1,BorderLayout.CENTER);
		frm.add(pl2,BorderLayout.SOUTH);
		frm.setSize(300, 550);
		frm.setVisible(true);
		
		try {
			ss= new ServerSocket(port);
			s = ss.accept();

			//System.out.println("a client connect");
			disparea.setText("a client connect");

		} catch (IOException e) {

			e.printStackTrace();
		}
		rec = new Thread(new recvpro());
		rec.start();
	}
	


	class recvpro implements Runnable {

		public void run() {
			System.out.println("in recvpro");
			// TODO Auto-generated method stub
			if(in==null || din==null) {
				try {
					in = s.getInputStream();
				} catch (IOException e) {
					// TODO Auto-generated catch block
					e.printStackTrace();
				}
				din = new DataInputStream(in);
			}
			System.out.println("server alive");
			while(s.isConnected()) {
				
				try {
					String recv =din.readUTF();
					if(!recv.equalsIgnoreCase(NET_DISCON_FLAG))
						disparea.setText( disparea.getText()+"\n"+recv);
					else {
						net_flag=true;
						disparea.setText(  disparea.getText()+"\n"+"TERMINATED");
						return;
					}
						
					
				} catch (IOException e) {
					// TODO Auto-generated catch block
					e.printStackTrace();
				}
			}
//			if(!s.isConnected())
//				disparea.setText("cun down");
		}
		
	}
	
	class clsbtnsend implements ActionListener {

		@Override
		public void actionPerformed(ActionEvent e) {
			// TODO Auto-generated method stub
			if( out == null || dout==null)
				try {
					out = s.getOutputStream();
					dout = new DataOutputStream(out);
				} catch (IOException e1) {
					// TODO Auto-generated catch block
					e1.printStackTrace();
				}
			
			
			try {
				dout.writeUTF(sendarea.getText());
				dout.flush();
			
			} catch (IOException e1) {
				// TODO Auto-generated catch block
				e1.printStackTrace();
			}
			disparea.setText(disparea.getText()+"\n"+sendarea.getText());
			sendarea.setText("");
		}
		
	}
	class clswindowclose extends WindowAdapter {
		public void windowClosing(WindowEvent e){
			
			if(rec!=null)
				if(rec.isAlive())
					rec.interrupt();
			try {
				if(!net_flag && dout!=null) {
					dout.writeUTF(NET_DISCON_FLAG);
					dout.flush();
				}
				if(din!=null)
					din.close();
				if(in!=null)
					in.close();
				if(dout!=null)
					dout.close();
				if(out!=null)
					out.close();
			} catch (IOException e3) {
				// TODO Auto-generated catch block
				e3.printStackTrace();
			}
			if(s != null)
				try {System.out.println("flag1");
					s.close();
				} catch (IOException e1) {
					// TODO Auto-generated catch block
					e1.printStackTrace();
				}
			if(ss != null)
				try {System.out.println("flag2");
					ss.close();
				} catch (IOException e1) {
					// TODO Auto-generated catch block
					e1.printStackTrace();
				}
			System.out.println("window close ");
			//super.windowClosing(e);
		}
	}
}

最近做一个聊天的小程序，运用多线程接收，发送则使用事件方式。

然后出了一堆bug，在调bug过程中，（在如上的代码的情况下）发现即便是在windowclosing函数中处理一切，

运行代码，然后不做操作直接关闭

依旧会报错。错误提示socket closed,错误指向在多线程的run方法里面。

于是加了几个syso来看原因，运行结果如下：

flag2
java.net.SocketException: socket closed
at java.net.PlainSocketImpl.socketAccept(Native Method)
at java.net.PlainSocketImpl.accept(PlainSocketImpl.java:384)
at java.net.ServerSocket.implAccept(ServerSocket.java:453)
at java.net.ServerSocket.accept(ServerSocket.java:421)
at chat.MyUI.<init>(MyUI.java:69)
at chat.chat.main(chat.java:14)
window close 
in recvpro
Exception in thread "Thread-3" java.lang.NullPointerException
at chat.MyUI$recvpro.run(MyUI.java:91)
at java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:619)

猜测原因应该是即便是关闭窗口，执行windowclosing函数，主函数仍会执行完毕，因此导致报错。