nohup java \
-server \
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote=true \
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.port=8887 \
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.rmi.port=8886 \
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.authenticate=false \
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.ssl=false \
-Djava.rmi.server.hostname=<server_ip> \
-jar <your_jar_file> &
Note:
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.rmi.port is very IMPORTANT !