【每天积累一点点】Humans of New York

“I met him six months ago at work. I’m the manager of a store. He was a delivery man. He was playful and fun. He’d bring me coffee and buns in the morning. He started driving me home at night. We began dating and recently moved in together. But a few weeks ago I called his cell phone and a woman picked up. She started asking who I was, and said she wanted to know why I was calling ‘her man.’ Afterwards he told me it was a big misunderstanding. He said it was his ex-girlfriend, and he’d been with her for nine years, so he still feels a responsibility to provide for her. He swears it’s just a material relationship. But she calls him all the time now. He’s not my property, and I don’t want to lose him, but I just want him to make her go away. But he acts like it’s my problem. When I tell him it bothers me, he just says: ‘I’ll ask her not to call at night.’” (St. Petersburg, Russia)

六个月前，在工作的时候我认识了他。我是一个商店的管理员。他是一个送货员。他很活泼也很风趣。每天早上他会给我带咖啡和面包。晚上会开车送我回家。后来我们开始约会，现在我们住在一起了。但是几个星期前我给他打电话的时候居然是一个女人接了电话。那个女人问我是谁，并说为什么给她男朋友打电话。后来，他跟我说这是一个很大的误会。他说那是他前女友，他们曾经在一起九年，因此他觉得他有责任赡养她。他发誓他们之间并无爱梦，只是单纯的物质关系。但是现在她总是不断的给他打电话。我知道他不是我的私人财产，但是我不想失去他，我只想让他离那个女人远点。但是他的表现好像是我的错一样。我跟他说我特别苦恼的时候，他却说“我会跟她说不要晚上打电话”。（俄罗斯圣彼得堡）