在中国,父母总是竭力帮助孩子,甚至为孩子做重要决定,而不管孩子想要什么,因为他们相信这样做是为孩子好。结果,孩子的成长和教育往往屈从于父母的意愿。
如果父母决定为孩子报名参加一个课外班,以增加其被重点学校录取的机会,他们会坚持自己的决定,即使孩子根本不感兴趣。然而在美国,父母可能会尊重孩子的意见,并在决策时更注重他们的意见。中国父母十分重视教育或许值得称赞。然而,他们应该向美国父母学习在涉及教育时如何平衡父母与孩子间的关系。
In china,parents always try every means to help their children,and even make important decisions for them.They never care about what the children really want because they believe that it is good for the children.AS a result ,children's growth and education tend to surrend to the wills of their parents.
if parents decide to sign up for their children to take an extra class to increase the chance of being admitted to a key school.They will stick to their decisions,even if their children are not interested in it
In the United States,however,parents are likely to respect their children's opinions ,and to pay more attention to their opinions in making decisions.
It may be worthy of praise for the Chinese parents to attach great importance to education.However,they should learn how to balance the relation between parents and children from American parents when it comes to the education.
With the improvement of living standards, holidays is playing an increasingly important role in Chinese people's lives. In the past, Making the living took most of people's time,which left them little chance to go off on a trip.However,the tourism in China had undergone rapid development for the past several years. The prosperity of economy and the emergence of affluent middle class triggered an unprecedented tourism boom . Not only is the domestic traveling becoming common, but traveling abrord is also enjoying increasing popularity amony chinese people.During the National day holiday in 2016,the consumption in toursim accounted to more than 400 billion yuan. According to the estimated data by World Trade Organizaion. China will become the World's lagerest tourism country by 2020,and will see the fastest growth in overseas traveling expenditure in the next few years.