I apologize that you are encountering those issues. To help us troubleshoot this, would you please purge and reinstall the do-agent on your droplet:
sudo apt-get purge do-agent
curl -sSL https://agent.digitalocean.com/install.sh | sh
Then please run the do-agent in debug mode for a few minutes:
sudo -u nobody /opt/digitalocean/bin/do-agent -log_level DEBUG
If you see any errors, please let us know. Otherwise, stop that process and start the do-agent normally:
sudo service do-agent start
Your graphs should begin to display within a few hours at most. If not, please let us know.