数组循环的时候判断对应的订单id是否一致，一致的话重新赋值

$param_data['num'] = 1000;
$list = (new \app\common\model\Order())->get_user_list($param_data);
$list = $list->toArray();
$list_data = $list['data'];
$not_read_msg = [];
if (!empty($list_data)){
    $g_ids = array_column($list_data,'id');
    // 判断 是否 有 未读 的 消息
    $msg_where['is_source'] = ['=','order'];
    $msg_where['operate_id'] = ['in',$g_ids];
    $msg_where['is_read'] = ['=',0];
    $msg_where['is_admin'] = ['=',1];
    $not_read_msg = (new LeaveMessage())
        ->where($msg_where)
        // ->column('operate_id,count(id) as num')
        ->select();
    $lists =  json_decode( json_encode( $not_read_msg),true);//将对象转换成数组
    if ($list){
        $arr = array_column($lists, 'operate_id', 'id');
        $not_read_msg =  array_count_values($arr);//统计每一个商品出现的次数
    }
}
//循环判断key是否一致
foreach ($list_data as $k=>$v){
    foreach ($not_read_msg as $key=>$val){
        if ($v['id'] == $key){
            $list_data[$k]['tip_count'] = $val;
        }
    }
}