appreciate themselves

like his will to embrace life

Blindly arrogant self-esteem, is the pride of life of ignorance, blindly give up on themselves, is negative and pessimistic life. Understanding of their more difficult than to understand others, like themselves than like others more difficult. Self-esteem with the appropriate mental health, will show the face of setbacks particularly strong. The temptation of the outside world is not lost self, not to deny their own temporary setbacks, always cool and objective evaluation of their own, often optimism certainly appreciate themselves.

the use of good eyes to the world

Water is clear there are no fish, no friends of people to the police. Everywhere can not tolerate other people's lack CROSS points, then everyone becomes bad, it can not live in peace. To see the world of evil, the world is breaking everywhere residual a; to see the world of good, a lovely place the world's total. own look at other people's strengths, the more look the more lovely.

not to please others blindly

It is impossible to please everyone, and it is not necessary to please everyone, equal to offend everyone, deliberately to please others will only make others aversion, people close to glass nature, speculative mentality to change, time to please , it is better to work steadily and surely, to please others is always a risk, their only real effort.

Blindly to please others will lose self, to enrich themselves is very important.

a done deal would have to go with the flow

Mature rice raw rice has been boiled, go to the previous behavior of regret, that the benefits are not, the only sensible approach is how to handle things behind, do not let things worse, thrown out of the water tin is not received back has been carved wooden boat is not restitution, that these simple truth, you can calmly deal with legacy issues. Regret no benefits, not to take things worse.