先把参考资料贴出来:
MDI窗体的工具栏合并(ToolStrip Merging)的功能实现:
http://www.cnblogs.com/panjiwen/
Crafting a C# Forms Editor from scratch:
http://www.codeproject.com/csharp/SharpFormEditorDemo.asp
Create And Host Custom Designers With The .NET Framework 2.0
哈哈,真是太棒了!