让生活更美好的 50 个小贴士

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50 Tips For A Better Life
让生活更美好的 50 个小贴士

Happiness
幸福

1. You don’t have to love your job. Jobs are a way to make money. Many people live fine lives in okay jobs by using the money they make on things they care about.

2. 你不必热爱你的工作。工作是一种赚钱的方式。许多人通过将赚到的钱用在他们关心的事情上，过着美好的生活。

3. Sturgeon’s law states that 90% of everything is crap. If you dislike poetry, or fine art, or anything, it’s possible you’ve only ever seen the crap. Go looking!

4. 斯特金定律指出，90% 的东西都是垃圾。如果你不喜欢诗歌、美术或其他任何东西，你可能只看过那些废话。去找吧！

5. People don’t realize how much they hate commuting. A nice house farther from work is not worth the fraction of your life you are giving to boredom and fatigue.

6. 人们没有意识到他们有多么讨厌通勤。离工作地点较远的漂亮房子不值得你把生命中的一小部分花在无聊和疲劳上。

7. There’s some evidence that introverts and extroverts both benefit from being pushed to be more extroverted. Consider this the next time you aren’t sure if you feel like going out.

8. 有一些证据表明，内向者和外向者都受益于被推动变得更加外向。下次您不确定是否想外出时，请考虑一下。

Success
成功

5. History remembers those who got to market first. Getting your creation out into the world is more important than getting it perfect.

6. 历史会记住那些最先进入市场的人。将您的创作推向世界比完美更重要。

7. Are you on the fence about breaking up or leaving your job? You should probably go ahead and do it. People, on average, end up happier when they take the plunge.

8. 您是否对分手或离职持观望态度？你可能应该去做。平均而言，当人们冒险时，他们最终会更快乐。

9. Done is better than perfect.

10. 完成总比完美好。

11. Discipline is superior to motivation. The former can be trained, the latter is fleeting. You won’t be able to accomplish great things if you’re only relying on motivation.

12. 纪律优于动力。前者可以训练，后者转瞬即逝。如果你只依靠动力，你将无法完成伟大的事情。

13. You can improve your communication skills with practice much more effectively than you can improve your intelligence with practice. If you’re not that smart but can communicate ideas clearly, you have a great advantage over everybody who can’t communicate clearly.

14. 你可以通过练习来提高你的沟通技巧，而不是通过练习来提高你的智力。如果你不是那么聪明，但能清楚地传达想法，那么你比那些不能清晰沟通的人有很大的优势。

15. You do not live in a video game. There are no pop-up warnings if you’re about to do something foolish, or if you’ve been going in the wrong direction for too long. You have to create your own warnings.

16. 你不生活在电子游戏中。如果您即将做一些愚蠢的事情，或者如果您已经朝着错误的方向前进太久，则不会弹出警告。您必须创建自己的警告。

17. If you listen to successful people talk about their methods, remember that all the people who used the same methods and failed did not make videos about it.

18. 如果你听成功人士谈论他们的方法，请记住，所有使用相同方法但失败的人都没有制作相关视频。

19. The best advice is personal and comes from somebody who knows you well. Take broad-spectrum advice like this as needed, but the best way to get help is to ask honest friends who love you.

20. 最好的建议是个人的，并且来自熟悉你的人。根据需要接受像这样的广泛建议，但寻求帮助的最好方法是询问爱你的诚实朋友。

21. Make accomplishing things as easy as possible. Find the easiest way to start exercising. Find the easiest way to start writing. People make things harder than they have to be and get frustrated when they can’t succeed. Try not to.

22. 让事情尽可能简单。找到开始锻炼的最简单方法。找到开始写作的最简单方法。人们让事情变得比他们必须的更难，当他们无法成功时会感到沮丧。尽量不要这样做。

23. Cultivate a reputation for being dependable. Good reputations are valuable because they’re rare (easily destroyed and hard to rebuild). You don’t have to brew the most amazing coffee if your customers know the coffee will always be hot.

24. 树立可靠的声誉。良好的声誉很有价值，因为它们很稀有（很容易被摧毁且难以重建）。如果您的客户知道咖啡永远是热的，那么您不必冲泡最美味的咖啡。

25. How you spend every day is how you spend your life.

26. 你每天如何度过就是你如何度过你的一生。

Relationships
关系

16. In relationships look for somebody you can enjoy just hanging out near. Long-term relationships are mostly spent just chilling.

17. 在人际关系中，寻找一个你可以喜欢在附近闲逛的人。长期的关系大多只是为了放松。

18. Don’t complain about your partner to coworkers or online. The benefits are negligible and the cost is destroying a bit of your soul.

19. 不要向同事或在网上抱怨你的伴侣。好处可以忽略不计，成本会摧毁你的一点灵魂。

20. After a breakup, cease all contact as soon as practical. The potential for drama is endless, and the potential for a good friendship is negligible. Wait a year before trying to be friends again.

21. 分手后，尽快停止所有联系。戏剧的可能性是无穷无尽的，而建立良好友谊的可能性可以忽略不计。等一年后再尝试再次成为朋友。

22. When dating, de-emphasizing your quirks will lead to 90% of people thinking you’re kind of alright. Emphasizing your quirks will lead to 10% of people thinking you’re fascinating and fun. Those are the people interested in dating you. Aim for them.

23. 约会时，不强调你的怪癖会导致 90% 的人认为你还不错。强调你的怪癖会导致 10% 的人认为你很迷人和有趣。这些人有兴趣和你约会。瞄准他们。

24. There are two red flags to avoid almost all dangerous people: 1. The perpetually aggrieved ; 2. The angry.

25. 有两个危险信号可以避免几乎所有危险的人： 1. 永远受委屈的人;2. 愤怒。

26. Those who generate anxiety in you and promise that they have the solution are grifters. See: politicians, marketers, new masculinity gurus, etc. Avoid these.

27. 那些在你心中产生焦虑并承诺他们有解决方案的人是骗子。参见：政客、营销人员、新男子气概大师等。避免这些。

Body
身体

22. The 20-20-20 rule: Every 20 minutes of screenwork, look at a spot 20 feet away for 20 seconds. This will reduce eye strain and is easy to remember (or program reminders for).

23. 20-20-20 规则：每 20 分钟的屏幕工作，看 20 英尺外的一个点 20 秒。这将减少眼睛疲劳，并且易于记忆（或程序提醒）。

24. Exercise is the most important lifestyle intervention you can do. Even the bare minimum (15 minutes a week) has a huge impact. Start small.

25. 锻炼是您可以做的最重要的生活方式干预。即使是最低限度的（每周 15 分钟）也会产生巨大的影响。从小处着手。

26. Phones have gotten heavier in the last decade and they’re actually pretty hard on your wrists! Use a computer when it’s an alternative or try to at least prop up your phone.

27. 手机在过去十年中变得越来越重，它们实际上对你的手腕来说非常困难！当它是替代品时，请使用电脑，或者至少尝试支撑您的手机。

Productivity
生产力
25. Learn keyboard shortcuts. They’re easy to learn and you’ll get tasks done faster and easier.
25. 学习键盘快捷键。它们易于学习，您将更快、更轻松地完成任务。

26. Keep your desk and workspace bare. Treat every object as an imposition upon your attention, because it is. A workspace is not a place for storing things. It is a place for accomplishing things.

27. 保持办公桌和工作区光秃秃的。把每一件物品都看作是你注意力的强加，因为它确实如此。工作区不是存放物品的地方。这是一个完成事情的地方。

28. Reward yourself after completing challenges, even badly.

29. 完成挑战后奖励自己，即使是糟糕的。

Rationality
合理性

28. Noticing biases in others is easy, noticing biases in yourself is hard. However, it has a much higher pay-off.

29. 注意到别人的偏见很容易，注意到自己的偏见很难。但是，它的回报要高得多。

30. Explaining problems is good. Often in the process of laying out a problem, a solution will present itself.

31. 解释问题是好的。通常在布置问题的过程中，会有一个解决方案出现。

32. Selfish people should listen to advice to be more selfless, selfless people should listen to advice to be more selfish. This applies to many things. Whenever you receive advice, consider its opposite as well. You might be filtering out the advice you need most.

33. 自私的人应该听建议更无私，无私的人应该听建议更自私。这适用于许多事情。每当您收到建议时，也要考虑它的反面。您可能正在筛选出您最需要的建议。

Compassion
同情

31. Call your parents when you think of them, tell your friends when you love them.

32. 想起他们就打电话给父母，爱他们就告诉朋友。

33. Compliment people more. Many people have trouble thinking of themselves as smart, or pretty, or kind, unless told by someone else. You can help them out.

34. 多赞美人。许多人很难认为自己聪明、漂亮或善良，除非别人告诉自己。你可以帮助他们。

35. Don’t punish people for trying. You teach them to not try with you. Punishing includes whining that it took them so long, that they did it badly, or that others have done it better.

36. 不要因为人们的尝试而惩罚他们。你教他们不要和你一起尝试。惩罚包括抱怨他们花了这么长时间，他们做得很糟糕，或者其他人做得更好。

37. Don’t punish people for admitting they were wrong, you make it harder for them to improve.

38. 不要因为人们承认他们错了而惩罚他们，你会让他们更难改进。

39. In general, you will look for excuses to not be kind to people. Resist these.

40. 一般来说，你会找借口不善待人。抵制这些。

Possessions
财产

36. Things you use for a significant fraction of your life (bed: 1/3rd, office-chair: 1/4th) are worth investing in.

37. 你一生中大部分时间使用的东西（床：1/3，办公椅：1/4）都值得投资。

38. “Where is the good knife?” If you’re looking for your good X, you have bad Xs. Throw those out.

39. “好刀在哪里？”如果你在寻找你的好 X，你就有坏的 X。

40. If your work is done on a computer, get a second monitor. Less time navigating between windows means more time for thinking.

41. 如果您的工作是在计算机上完成的，请购买第二台显示器。更少的时间在窗口之间导航意味着更多的思考时间。

42. Establish clear rules about when to throw out old junk. Once clear rules are established, junk will probably cease to be a problem. This is because any rule would be superior to our implicit rules (“keep this broken stereo for five years in case I learn how to fix it”).

43. 制定关于何时扔掉旧垃圾的明确规则。一旦建立了明确的规则，垃圾可能就不再是一个问题。这是因为任何规则都优于我们的隐含规则（“将这个坏掉的立体声音响保留五年，以防我学会如何修复它”）。

44. When buying things, time and money trade-off against each other. If you’re low on money, take more time to find deals. If you’re low on time, stop looking for great deals and just buy things quickly online.

45. 买东西时，时间和金钱会相互权衡。如果您资金不足，请花更多时间寻找优惠。如果您时间紧迫，请停止寻找超值优惠，只需在线快速购买即可。

Self
自我

41. Deficiencies do not make you special. The older you get, the more your inability to cook will be a red flag for people.

42. 缺陷不会让你变得特别。年龄越大，你不会做饭就越会成为人们的危险信号。

43. If you’re under 90, try things.

44. 如果你不到 90 岁，试试看。

45. Things that aren’t your fault can still be your responsibility.

46. 不是你的错的事情仍然可以是你的责任。

47. Defining yourself by your suffering is an effective way to keep suffering forever (ex. incels, trauma).

48. 用你的痛苦来定义自己是永远保持痛苦的有效方法（例如 incels、trauma）。

49. Keep your identity small. “I’m not the kind of person who does things like that” is not an explanation, it’s a trap. It prevents nerds from working out and men from dancing.

50. 保持你的身份小。“我不是那种做这种事情的人”不是一个解释，而是一个陷阱。它阻止了书锻炼和男人跳舞。

51. Don’t confuse ‘doing a thing because I like it’ with ‘doing a thing because I want to be seen as the sort of person who does such things’.

52. 不要将“因为我喜欢而做一件事”与“做一件事是因为我想被视为那种做这样事情的人”混淆。

53. Remember that you are dying.

54. 记住你快要死了。

55. Personal epiphanies feel great, but they fade within weeks. Upon having an epiphany, make a plan and start actually changing behavior.

56. 个人的顿悟感觉很棒，但它们会在几周内消失。顿悟后，制定计划并开始真正改变行为。

Others
别人

49. In choosing between living with 0-1 people vs 2 or more people, remember that ascertaining responsibility will no longer be instantaneous with more than one roommate (“whose dishes are these?”).

50. 在选择 0-1 人与 2 人或更多人住在一起时，请记住，确定责任将不再是与多个室友一起立即确定的（“这些是谁的菜？”）

51. When you ask people, “What’s your favorite book / movie / band?” and they stumble, ask them instead what book / movie / band they’re currently enjoying most. They’ll almost always have one and be able to talk about it.

52. 当你问人们，“你最喜欢的书/电影/乐队是什么”时，他们磕磕绊绊地问他们目前最喜欢什么书/电影/乐队。他们几乎总是会有一个，并且能够谈论它。