英语美文-影响你人生的四句话

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regard   美 [rɪ'ɡɑrd] vt.把…看作； 

aspiration 美 [æspəˈreʃən]  n. 渴望；抱负；

ecstatic 美 [ɪk'stætɪk]  adj. 狂喜的；入迷的

ecstasy 美 ['ɛkstəsi]  n. 狂喜；入迷；忘形

sympathize  美 ['sɪmpə'θaɪz]  vi. 同情，怜悯；支持

infringe 美 [ɪn'frɪndʒ]  vt. 侵犯；违反；破坏

  A youngster went to visit an old wise man.He asked the wise man,"How can I become a preson who can make myself and others happys?".The wise man looked at him and said."My son,you're one in a thousand to have such an aspiration at this age.I give you four sentences .The first sentences is to regard you as others .Can you explain its meaning?".

  The youngster repild,"That is say ,when I feel distressed,regrad myself as others,so that I will reduce the distress naturally; when I'm ecstatic ,regard myself as others,the ecstasy will become placid."The wise man nodded slightly and went on ,"The second is to regard others as you."

  The youngster thought for a wille and said."In this way you many truly sympathize with other's misfortune , understand the other's requirements and give them proper help when they need." The wise man's eyes glowing ,he continued ,"The third is regard others as others." The boy said ."It means that we should fully respect each person's independence and can never infringe their core territory in any case."The wise man laughed."Very well.The fourth is to regard you as yourself. it is too hard for you ti understand .so keep it for you to taste it slowly in future. ".

   一位少年去拜访一位智者。他问智者:"我怎么才能成为一个既让自己愉快，又让他人愉快的人人呢?".智者看着他说:“孩子，在你这年龄有这样的愿望已经很了不起了。我送你四句话，第一句话把自己当成别人。你能说说这句话的含义么？

  少年回答说：“这句话是说，在我感到痛苦是把自己当做别人，这样痛苦就自然减轻了；当我欣喜若狂时，把自己当成别人狂喜也会变得平和。“智者微微点点头，接着说：第二句话，把别人当成自己。”。

  少年沉思了一会说：“这样就可以真正的同求别人，理解别人的需求，在别人需求时给予恰当的帮助。智者两眼发光继续说道：第三句话把别人当成别人。”少年说:"这句话是说，要充分尊重每个人的独立性，在任何情况下都不能侵犯别人的核心领地".智者哈哈大笑的说："很好，第四句话是：把自己当成自己。这句话理解起来是在太难了。所以留着你以后慢慢品味吧.".

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