1. start first
xfce4-panel
2. then restart
xfce4-panel -r
3. change css file
~/.config/gtk-3.0/gtk.css
.xfce4-panel {
border-bottom-left-radius: 13px;
border-bottom-right-radius: 13px;
border-top-left-radius: 13px;
border-top-right-radius: 13px;
}
wnck-pager:selected {
background-color: lightblue; }
wnck-pager { background: #F56363; }
/*wnck-pager:hover {
background-color: gray; }*/