how to build social skills

(1)be intersted ,not intersting

(2)be positive, but not too positive;think about people you've known who expect the worst from everyone and everything;and are't shy about about speaking ;that is just me;

(3)be charitable to others

(4)be helpful and dependable

(5)be a "matchmaker

(6)be your best self

(7)be self-aware .you should always "to have a friend,be a friend"; from any angle,i'm not a friend;i don't care about others;never go from heart to heart;

I think the worst thing is your uncaring ;you didn't bring anything to the group;you just accept; no idea; no plan;so you only focus on other's plan;you did't bring anything out;