只实例化一个静态实例，避免重复创建实例

public class AIconbg : MonoBehaviour 
{

public static Transform instanceTransform;//静态实例

void OnDestroy()
  {
     instanceTransform = null;//切换场景时将引用删除，避免切回场景下次实例时报空
  }
}

在一级按钮下实例化二级按钮（二级按钮在每次切换一级按钮时只有一个实例），且位置在一级按钮中心左侧：

public List<GameObject> A_Icon = new List<GameObject>();//二级按钮
public GameObject A_Icon_bg;//二级按钮板

void Start()
{
    this.transform.GetComponent<Toggle>().onValueChanged.AddListener(Ischange);

}

private void Ischange(bool isTrue)
{
    if (isTrue)
    {
        if (AIconbg.instanceTransform == null)
        {
            GameObject obj = (GameObject)Instantiate(A_Icon_bg, new Vector3(0, 0, 0), Quaternion.identity);
            AIconbg.instanceTransform = obj.transform;
        }
        Transform t = AIconbg.instanceTransform;
        t.SetParent(this.transform);
        t.localScale = Vector3.one;
        t.localPosition = new Vector3(-71, 0, 0);
        AIconbg.instanceTransform.gameObject.SetActive(true);
    }

}