1. sendMessage
.h
afx_msg void OnBnClickedButton1();
afx_msg LONG OnMessageTest(WPARAM wParam, LPARAM lParam);
.cpp
#define WM_TEST_MESSAGE WM_USER+2120
BEGIN_MESSAGE_MAP(CtestDlg, CDialogEx)
ON_MESSAGE(WM_TEST_MESSAGE, OnMessageTest)//ADY
END_MESSAGE_MAP()
void CtestDlg::OnBnClickedButton1()
{
// TODO: 在此添加控件通知处理程序代码
CString name = L"name1";
CString sex = L"girl";
::SendMessage(m_hWnd, WM_TEST_MESSAGE, (WPARAM)&name, (LPARAM)&sex);