English Speech

June, 15th, 2023

Dan Pena 的人生建议

Once you become fearless, life become limitless. I believe that with all my heart.
We human are dying out. Lots of people are deathly afraid of everything.
He asked people that what if someone spit on your wife’s face. The answer ranges from “I try to ascertain what kind of day he was having” to “I’ll beat the guy to death.”
There is never easy time to make a hard decision. But what you have to do is to pull the trigger and take action.
Some actions seem more like another form of procrastination, instead of taking action.
The main difference between a high-performance people is that they believe in the extraordinary.
There is no such a thing like work-life balance. There are work-life choices. And you make them. They have consequences.
Would you rather make a chice between your daughter’s 16 birthday or that you’re being flat broke, huddle in a corner, homeless?
Do I deserve to be weathy beyond measure?
There is fear, false expectation appealing real. And then there is a plain society that holds you down.
Strange time is these in which we live when the old and the young are taught falsehood in school and the person who does tell the truth is called lunatic and fool.

• Being honest may not get you enough friends, but will always get you the right one.
• Choose carefully the people you associate with.
• You’ll continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you.
  True power is sitting back and observing things with logic. The power is restraint.
  If words can control you, that means everyone else can control you.
  Breath, and allow things to pass.
  If your kids need to go to that safe room to avoid an offensive words, you fail as a parent.
  If you can reduce that emothional baggage, just a little, you have no idea how much freeer you’re gonna be and how much more you’re gonna accomoplish in your life.
• Good habits are hard to come by. But what is even harder to come by is people who have those good habits that you can be around.
  A ruler is judged by who he surround himself with.
  I never get tacit approval.
  Keep yourself with the right people.
  There are some kids programmed for success.
  I was programmed by accident.
  “Keep me alive till I reach the age of reason”
  His mother spends almost her entire life trying to make him what she wasn’t.
  So he didn’t get there, make who he was, by accident. And he still pushed the enveloped.挑战极限。
  We were put here to be all we can be.

戈金斯如何建立自信

June, 16th, 2023
The short interview is all about how to build up self-esteem and confidence and stuff.
Whenever you think you can’t, confidence comes from what you have built, instead of shouting affirmations in the mirror and punching your chest. You must build your belief. You should have a stack of undeniable proof that you are who you say you are outwork yourself doubt.
That’s nailed ! // Absolutely correct.
What worked for him is the things he know of accomplished, the things he know he has done, real hard work, the real calluses on his hands, the real calluses on his mind.
How he builds belief is to through the daunting tasks that he put himself through.
Going back to what you said before about needing to cap success, you wouldn’t be able to fit it well even in one tenth of that in.