动态列合并更新

【问题】

I have one query, would be great if anyone can help me out on this.

In SQL, I have two tables with same column names. Want to query if there is any difference in the column values and if yes will update the values(in the first table) else if the row is not found will insert the row using the MERGE statement.
As of now, I have to mention all the columns in the tables and match by the values.

Eg: If the tables are like this:
Table1 (A,B,C,D…)
Table2 (A,B,C,D…)

The query would be like this :
MERBE INTO Table1 as TabA
USING (Select * from Table2) AS TabB
ON TabA.A=TabB.A
AND TabA.B=TabB.B
AND TabA.C=Tab.C
AND TabA.D=TabB.D
…
…
When Matched Then
Update
Set TabA.A=TabB.A,
, TabA.B=TabB.B
, TabA.C=TabB.C
, TabA.D=TabB.D
..
..
..
When NOT Matched Then
Insert Values (TabB.A,Tab