MFC中在子线程中如何更新控件的值

以下以vs2013+opencv2.4.9的开发环境做出演示：

文章通过MFC+opencv使用多线程的方法实现视频的播放暂停和结束这个demo来说
http://blog.csdn.net/davebobo/article/details/51123853

线程函数DWORD WINAPI PlayVideo(LPVOID lpParam)

DWORD WINAPI PlayVideo(LPVOID lpParam)
{
    CMFCdetectDlg* pThis = (CMFCdetectDlg*)lpParam;
    CvCapture* pCapture;
    IplImage* frame;
    pCapture = cvCreateFileCapture("example.mov");
    // 获取视频的帧率
    int fps = (int)cvGetCaptureProperty(pCapture, CV_CAP_PROP_FPS);
    //pThis->UpdateData(TRUE);
    SendMessage(pThis->m_hWnd, WM_MY_MESSAG