java无法连接远程服务器数据库,jar远程连接数据库失败

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我把项目导出为jar后，在我的电脑上能正常运行并且能访问数据库，但是在别人电脑上就会报错，报错如下：

com.mysql.cj.jdbc.exceptions.CommunicationsException: Communications link failure

The last packet sent successfully to the server was 0 milliseconds ago. The driver has not received any packets from the server.

at com.mysql.cj.jdbc.exceptions.SQLError.createCommunicationsException(SQLError.java:174)

at com.mysql.cj.jdbc.exceptions.SQLExceptionsMapping.translateException(SQLExceptionsMapping.java:64)

at com.mysql.cj.jdbc.ConnectionImpl.createNewIO(ConnectionImpl.java:836)

at com.mysql.cj.jdbc.ConnectionImpl.(ConnectionImpl.java:456)

at com.mysql.cj.jdbc.ConnectionImpl.getInstance(ConnectionImpl.java:246)

at com.mysql.cj.jdbc.NonRegisteringDriver.connect(NonRegisteringDriver.java:198)

at java.sql/java.sql.DriverManager.getConnection(DriverManager.java:677)

at java.sql/java.sql.DriverManager.getConnection(DriverManager.java:251)

at b.conSQL.conMYSQL(conSQL.java:17)

at b.conSQL.checkIfUpdate(conSQL.java:28)

at a.hzx_METT$3.actionPerformed(hzx_METT.java:101)

at java.desktop/javax.swing.AbstractButton.fireActionPerformed(AbstractButton.java:1967)

at java.desktop/javax.swing.AbstractButton$Handler.actionPerformed(AbstractButton.java:2308)

at java.desktop/javax.swing.DefaultButtonModel.fireActionPerformed(DefaultButtonModel.java:405)

at java.desktop/javax.swing.DefaultButtonModel.setPressed(DefaultButtonModel.java:262)

at java.desktop/javax.swing.AbstractButton.doClick(AbstractButton.java:369)

at java.desktop/javax.swing.plaf.basic.BasicMenuItemUI.doClick(BasicMenuItemUI.java:1012)

at java.desktop/javax.swing.plaf.basic.BasicMenuItemUI$Handler.mouseReleased(BasicMenuItemUI.java:1056)

at java.desktop/java.awt.Component.processMouseEvent(Component.java:6614)

at java.desktop/javax.swing.JComponent.processMouseEvent(JComponent.java:3342)

at java.desktop/java.awt.Component.processEvent(Component.java:6379)

at java.desktop/java.awt.Container.processEvent(Container.java:2263)

at java.desktop/java.awt.Component.dispatchEventImpl(Component.java:4990)

at java.desktop/java.awt.Container.dispatchEventImpl(Container.java:2321)

at java.desktop/java.awt.Component.dispatchEvent(Component.java:4822)

at java.desktop/java.awt.LightweightDispatcher.retargetMouseEvent(Container.java:4919)

at java.desktop/java.awt.LightweightDispatcher.processMouseEvent(Container.java:4548)

at java.desktop/java.awt.LightweightDispatcher.dispatchEvent(Container.java:4489)

at java.desktop/java.awt.Container.dispatchEventImpl(Container.java:2307)

at java.desktop/java.awt.Window.dispatchEventImpl(Window.java:2769)

at java.desktop/java.awt.Component.dispatchEvent(Component.java:4822)

at java.desktop/java.awt.EventQueue.dispatchEventImpl(EventQueue.java:772)

at java.desktop/java.awt.EventQueue$4.run(EventQueue.java:721)

at java.desktop/java.awt.EventQueue$4.run(EventQueue.java:715)

at java.base/java.security.AccessController.doPrivileged(AccessController.java:391)

at java.base/java.security.ProtectionDomain$JavaSecurityAccessImpl.doIntersectionPrivilege(ProtectionDomain.java:85)

at java.base/java.security.ProtectionDomain$JavaSecurityAccessImpl.doIntersectionPrivilege(ProtectionDomain.java:95)

at java.desktop/java.awt.EventQueue$5.run(EventQueue.java:745)

at java.desktop/java.awt.EventQueue$5.run(EventQueue.java:743)

at java.base/java.security.AccessController.doPrivileged(AccessController.java:391)

at java.base/java.security.ProtectionDomain$JavaSecurityAccessImpl.doIntersectionPrivilege(ProtectionDomain.java:85)

at java.desktop/java.awt.EventQueue.dispatchEvent(EventQueue.java:742)

at java.desktop/java.awt.EventDispatchThread.pumpOneEventForFilters(EventDispatchThread.java:203)

at java.desktop/java.awt.EventDispatchThread.pumpEventsForFilter(EventDispatchThread.java:124)

at java.desktop/java.awt.EventDispatchThread.pumpEventsForHierarchy(EventDispatchThread.java:113)

at java.desktop/java.awt.EventDispatchThread.pumpEvents(EventDispatchThread.java:109)

at java.desktop/java.awt.EventDispatchThread.pumpEvents(EventDispatchThread.java:101)

at java.desktop/java.awt.EventDispatchThread.run(EventDispatchThread.java:90)

Caused by: com.mysql.cj.exceptions.CJCommunicationsException: Communications link failure

The last packet sent successfully to the server was 0 milliseconds ago. The driver has not received any packets from the server.

at java.base/jdk.internal.reflect.NativeConstructorAccessorImpl.newInstance0(Native Method)

at java.base/jdk.internal.reflect.NativeConstructorAccessorImpl.newInstance(NativeConstructorAccessorImpl.java:64)

at java.base/jdk.internal.reflect.DelegatingConstructorAccessorImpl.newInstance(DelegatingConstructorAccessorImpl.java:45)

at java.base/java.lang.reflect.Constructor.newInstanceWithCaller(Constructor.java:500)

at java.base/java.lang.reflect.Constructor.newInstance(Constructor.java:481)

at com.mysql.cj.exceptions.ExceptionFactory.createException(ExceptionFactory.java:61)

at com.mysql.cj.exceptions.ExceptionFactory.createException(ExceptionFactory.java:105)

at com.mysql.cj.exceptions.ExceptionFactory.createException(ExceptionFactory.java:151)

at com.mysql.cj.exceptions.ExceptionFactory.createCommunicationsException(ExceptionFactory.java:167)

at com.mysql.cj.protocol.a.NativeSocketConnection.connect(NativeSocketConnection.java:89)

at com.mysql.cj.NativeSession.connect(NativeSession.java:144)

at com.mysql.cj.jdbc.ConnectionImpl.connectOneTryOnly(ConnectionImpl.java:956)

at com.mysql.cj.jdbc.ConnectionImpl.createNewIO(ConnectionImpl.java:826)

... 45 more

jdk版本：15.0.1

jdbc版本：8.0.22

mysql版本：8.0.22

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