remote desk connection of windonws seems not statisfy my requirement. I need to control the descktop rather than start a new session.
teamviewer, LogMeIn free, vnc(such as ultravnc, realvnc server. can access through internet with no-ip).
Because I've been use vnc client for a long time and I just want to access my desktop in LAN, I choise ultravnc finally.