How lighter is good enough for a color?

 

I has been given a color dark pink #993333  (RGB, 153, 51, 51), and been asked to choose a lighter dark pink.

These two colors suppose to work together to make the UI beautiful, least accetable :)

 

How lighter should I give to make them perfert for each other?

 

After getting idea for our current product, I have chosen to decrease the saturation 42% and also increase the lum  55%.

Which is  H:0, Sat:69, Lum:148,  RGB(#B28989).