dll中需要AfxGetInstanceHandle()，不能NULL

	// TODO: Add extra initialization here
	 ntf.cbSize=sizeof NOTIFYICONDATA;
	 ntf.hWnd=this->m_hWnd;
	 
	 ntf.uID=IDR_MAINFRAME;
	 ntf.hIcon=LoadIcon(AfxGetInstanceHandle(),MAKEINTRESOURCE(IDR_MAINFRAME));
//dll中需要AfxGetInstanceHandle()，不能NULL   
//hMenu = LoadMenu(AfxGetInstanceHandle(), MAKEINTRESOURCE(IDR_MENU1)); // 加载菜单
	 strcpy(ntf.szTip,"femalelover is a good man");
	 ntf.uCallbackMessage=WM_MESSAGE;
	 ntf.uFlags=NIF_ICON|NIF_MESSAGE|NIF_TIP;  
	Shell_NotifyIcon(NIM_ADD,&ntf);
	return TRUE;  // return TRUE  unless you set the focus to a control