爱他， 请这样做

杨:

Why are you looking so sad?

你看起来为什么那么沮丧？ 

李:

I fought with Paul again yesterday. We both mentioned divorce.

昨天我跟Paul又 开战了。 我们都提到了离婚。 

杨:

First do you still love him?

首先你还爱他吗？ 

李:

I guess so. But he has so many problems which are small but make me angry.

我想是的。但是他有很多小毛病，经常惹我生气。 

杨:

Come on, if you still love him, you shall find a better way to get along with him?

得了吧，如果你还爱他，你就应该找一个更好的相处之道。 

李:

A better way?

更好的相处？ 

杨:

Yes, first when he is playing computer games, please don’t go directly and turn off the computer unless your house is on fire.

是的，首先当他玩电脑游戏的时候，不要直接走过去关掉电脑，除非你们家着火了。 

李:

Oh, hard to do like that, but will try.

哦，很难做到，但是可以试试。 

杨:

Second you shall give him respect when staying with friends especially his. Man is sensitive about face

第二在朋友尤其是他的朋友面前给他面子。男人都爱面子。 

李:

Well,well….

恩，恩。 

杨:

The most important thing is that don’t force him to apologize. You shall only let him know he is wrong, that‘s all.

最重要的是不要强迫他认错。 你只要让他知道自己做错了这就够了。