COCOS-GETchildbyname

    local child = _node:getChildByName(_name)
    -- print("find" .. _name .. "in" .. _node:getName())
    if child then
        return child 
    else
        local children = _node:getChildren()
        for i=1, #children do
            child = ToolKit:getOnlyChildByName(children[i], _name)
            if child then
                return child
            end
        end
        return nil
    end