import pandas as pd
m=pd.DataFrame([[1,2,3],[4,5,6],[7,8,9],[10,11,12]],columns=['a','b','c'])
print('m is \n',m)
m is
a b c
0 1 2 3
1 4 5 6
2 7 8 9
3 10 11 12
m_in=m[m.c.isin([3,9])]
print('m_in is \n',m_in)
m_in is
a b c
0 1 2 3
2 7 8 9
m_notin=m[~m.c.isin([3,4])]
print('m not in is\n',m_notin)
m not in is
a b c
1 4 5 6
2 7 8 9
3 10 11 12